Hello everyone.... Happy Ramadhan Eid-Mubarak.....I'm sure many of you are busy with Hari Raya Aidilfitri preparation especially womans or a mother to be more specific, you have got so many things to shop-shoes,dress for Raya,jewels,purse,handbags,curtains, have to think of your home deco concept for this year ..for a working mom like me will be more challenging , time is gold...no idea...not yet for now...err...cookies, cakes for Raya...my kid's stuff, hubby - he wants new watch, Mc Queen watch hmm...and many other things....so for me Hari Raya is a very important event in the year. We'll only celebrate it once,we'll be meeting families, relatives,friends, etc...so physical appearance and social intelligence are vital. From what i can share with you here,there are two types of extreme Social Intelligence , and there are ''Toxic Behaviour''- where those that cause others to feel devalued, inadequate, angry, frustrated and guilty. Most of my friends are in the ''Nourishing behaviour'' category- and they are those that cause others to feel valued, capable, loved , respected and appreciated. So don't you ever be the ''Toxic'' ok? hehehe...So talking about shopping just now...i am soo happy that i've found what i want! The top picks for my Raya this year..hahaha...here you go....
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| Owhh..it's pearl!! |
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| My top picks!I love it soo much! |
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| I can't help my self to ignore it! |
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| Gorgeous shoe and my other darling stuff... |
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Owhh...kindda Anya hindmarch earrings design, seriously i love it...
And have you ever heard about banish regret by buying what you really want?Studies show that a missed opportunity to make a purchase-like when the store is sold out for example a shoe that's on sale-will make you less likely to buy that product in the future.But then why do you still long for that jacket,painting,or other lost treasure you could have bought, but decided to forgo?According to Vanessa M.Patrick,PhD, associate professor at the University of Houston's C.T Bauer College of Business, certain circumstances provoke this contradictory reaction,making us desire something more,not less after missing a chance to buy it.
Patrick's research has found that if a purchase is tied to a goal of yours, or the item is rare, you could regret your inaction so much that you make great efforts to get the items that you once passed up. Another example,if a certain one- of- a- kind flower vase will complete your living room,but you waffle for too long and return to the store after it's been sold,you may find youself plotting ways to track it down. Of course , most people can't buy everything they want,but take a few moments to ask yourself how much you'll regret not purchasing an item before walking away from it, particularly if it's something that's hard to find or unique, or so beautiful that it may complete your day in many ways??? Happy Shopping!!!
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